About Trinity Infinity: Creator Spotlight Interview on Her Journey from Struggle to Red Carpet
In this Creator Spotlight, TrustyFans Founder & CEO Jack Anderson sits down with Trinity Infinity, a pink-haired, bubbly brat with a bite who has become an unapologetic femdom and fetish content creator taking the industry by storm. Known for her playful power and irresistible charm, she is more than a fantasy — she is a force. Trinity broke her cycle of generational poverty by climbing to top earner status across nearly every platform she has worked on, proving that being bratty truly pays off.
A rising star with impressive credentials, Trinity has earned multiple nominations and awards, including:
- Finalist for Princess of the Year 2023
- 2025 AVN nominee for Favorite Female Indie Creator of the Year
- 2025 Bazowie Award nominee for Best Nerd Cam
- Winner of the Own the Booth, Own the Spotlight LoyalFans Contest (April 2025), crowned Featured Creator of the Month and awarded a booth at the Exxxotica Chicago Expo
- 2025 Nevada Cannabis Awards Music Festival nominee for Best Model
- Currently submitting pre-nominations for 2026 AVN Favorite Female Indie Creator
Jack’s Take: Reflections on My Conversation with Trinity Infinity
It was a true pleasure to speak with Trinity Infinity this week. Our conversation reminded me why we started the Creator Spotlight series in the first place. This isn’t about surface-level highlights. It’s about real stories, honest reflections, and the lessons that come from lived experience.
Trinity shared openly about breaking cycles of poverty, facing instability, battling platform bans, and pushing through burnout, all while achieving incredible wins and recognitions. That mix of vulnerability and strength is what makes her story so powerful and so inspiring.
For me, it hit even deeper. I also grew up in less-than-ideal conditions, and hearing how Trinity trusted herself, built stability, and carved her own path resonated strongly. It’s a reminder that anyone can grow, adapt, and succeed on their own terms, even when the odds aren’t in their favor.
As I reflected on our conversation, three big takeaways stood out to me. These are lessons that apply not just to creators, but to anyone trying to build something meaningful:
1. Own Your Path
Trinity’s growth has been steady and intentional. She experimented, learned, and shifted from faceless camming to embracing her dominant voice. The takeaway is simple: start where you are, test what works, and keep moving. Small steps create big change.
2. Build Your Safety Net
What looks like momentum is really planning. Trinity saves, reinvests, and sets boundaries and plans so burnout doesn’t take over. She treats community as essential infrastructure through collaborations, friendships, and people who show up when life gets hard. Stability is what fuels creativity.
3. Choose Spaces that Respect You
Trinity is thoughtful about where she invests her time. She seeks platforms that give her control, communicate clear rules, and provide genuine support. And when a space no longer aligns with her goals, she moves on. Fit matters. Creators thrive when their tools and communities respect their boundaries, audience, and values.
Trinity’s story is inspiring because it is real. She has faced challenges, taken risks, and kept moving forward while staying true to herself. That resilience and honesty reflect the spirit of TrustyFans: helping creators be seen, respected, and celebrated on their own terms. Talking with Trinity was a reminder that while every journey looks different, the courage to own your path is what makes it powerful.
Transcript of the Interview with Trinity Infinity:
Introductions
Jack Anderson: Welcome everybody to creator spotlight series brought to you by Trusty Fans. I am Jack Anderson, founder and CEO of Trusty Fans. This series is all about highlighting the journeys, challenges, and wins of creators who are building their own unique paths exactly like Trinity here.
For those who are new to TrustyFans, TrustyFans is the first creator search engine that helps fans actually find you by kinks, content type, or traits so the right people discover your work. We’re not an agency. We’re not an only fan style platform. We don’t take a cut of your earnings or own your content. Instead, we give you a place to showcase your authentic self, market your brand, and connect with fans who are already searching for someone like you.
And today, I’m thrilled to introduce Trinity Infinity, the pink haired bubbly brat with a bite, an unapologetic femdom with fetish content creator who’s taken the industry by storm. Known for her playful power and irresistible charm, she’s not just a fantasy, she’s a force.
Trinity has shattered her cycle of generational poverty by climbing to the top earner status across nearly every platform she’s graced, proving that being bratty does pay off. Trinity, thank you so much for joining us.
Trinity Infinity : Thank you for having me. I’m super, super excited to be here.
Jack: Awesome. And I wanna mention you you kind of already are climbing this amazing ladder of, of achievements. And if you’re okay, I can I wanna mention some of these some of these awards and nominations that you’ve earned?
Trinity: Yes, please.
Jack: Awesome. So a rising star! Trinity has received multiple nominations. She was a finalist for Princess of the Year in 2023, walked the red carpet as a 2025 AVN Favorite Female Indie Creator of the Year nominee, and scored a nod for the 2025 Bazowie award for best nerd cam. She was the winner of the Own the Booth, Own the Spotlight LoyalFans contest in April 2025, which crowned her the Featured Creator of the Month in addition of having her own booth at the Exxxotica Chicago Expo. Most recently, she was nominated for Best Model for the Nevada Cannabis Award Music Festival in 2025 and is currently submitting pre-nominations for 2026’s AVN Favorite Female Indie Creator. That that’s a lot. That’s amazing.
Trinity: Yeah. When I hear it like that, it really, it’s crazy. It really is. I haven’t, fully processed. Being a nominee to me really is an achievement in itself. Like, I know I haven’t won any awards, yet, but just being nominated in an industry where there’s thousands and thousands and thousands of people who are all doing something similar, to be able to stand out among them really is an honor, and it feels like a true achievement.
Jack: I 100% agree. That’s is amazing.
Trinity: Thank you.
Jack: Yeah. And kind of you mentioned something here that I think it’s interesting. Like, you said you can whistle like a a bird and quack like Donald Duck. I’m curious how that sounds and how you figured that out.
Trinity: So I figured out I could whistle like a bird, *makes bird noises.*
Jack: Oh!
Trinity: I don’t remember how I figured that out. I actually struggled to whistle normally, but there was one day where I was kind of trying to, and then that happened. And I was like, oh, I can, whistle like a bird. I used to be a nanny, for kids with special needs, and there was a kid that I worked with who really, really liked Donald Duck. And one day, I was playing around with him, and all of a sudden, this *reenacts Donald Duck* came out of my mouth. And I was just like, oh, uh-huh. I can do that. It’s not something that comes in handy in this industry very often, but, they’re weird little skills that I I have.
Why Trinity Infinity Started Creating
Jack: That is amazing. That sounded just like them too. That’s awesome. Well, thank you so much for doing that. And, yeah, let’s let’s start from the beginning of things. So take us back to the start. What made you think, hey, “I wanna be a creator?”
Trinity: Okay. So I have always been a bit of a weirdo. I’ve always been drawn to things that were outside the norm. And in short, one of my first jobs when I left high school was, working at a Halloween store, and I had a coworker who, had a very interesting life. One day, she had her wife come in to, like, drop something off for her. And then the next day, it was her girlfriend, and I was like, okay. What’s going on here? So we went to lunch, she introduced me to FetLife, and I was just kind of, like, blown away by this whole world of, like, fetish and kink and polyamory.
I briefly dipped my toes in and tried camming for a little bit. And then, I started seeing someone who wasn’t okay with that world, so I decided to put that on pause and try to kinda live a vanilla life for a while. And, shocking, that didn’t work out so well.
So once that ended, I found myself in a place where I was living in Portland, and I was living with, like, six roommates. It was a very less than ideal situation. I was in debt. I had no savings, and I discovered phone sex. And when I first discovered phone sex, I was kinda like, wait. This is still a thing. I thought that, like, that was just a thing from, like, the 90s where, like, you would see ads on TV with, like, 800and 900 numbers.
Jack: Right.
Trinity: And you wouldn’t know who, like, you were talking to and, like, you’d be in, like, a cubicle or something. This was not that at all. So I started with phone sex, and then that led to me, I was always using my own pictures. So, that led to me doing, like, custom pictures, custom audio, and eventually custom videos, and then I started camming again, but I started doing faceless camming at first.
And then eventually, that evolved into me just live streaming more and doing my putting myself completely out there. So it’s been very gradual, every step of the way, but I’ve always had an inkling to be around people who are different and weird and do things my way.
From Faceless to Fearless
Jack: Do things your way. Yeah. That’s great. What it what was curious, what was the kind of change where you’re like, you know, I’m not gonna be faceless anymore. I’m gonna actually just show me.
Trinity: I think the biggest part of it was that I was feeling comfortable with myself. I’m a control freak and, having gotten so used to being, like, on the phone, I wasn’t really, like, prepared fully to, like, I wasn’t sure I would like how I always looked or, like, if I could control my facial expressions or reactions.
So after a certain point, I kinda just stopped caring. One of the first things that made me feel a little more comfortable with it was I had a fan for a little while who was into smoking shows. Like, he liked watching me hit my bong. So that was very easy for me to do because I was just like, “Sweet! This is me just being me.”
And then that led to me, doing domination is really what made me feel more comfortable being on cam. I have no problem putting my body out there or, even, like, masturbating or doing more hardcore stuff on camera, but it’s just a lot easier for me, and I enjoy being dominant and bratty a lot more.
Fears, Doubts, and the Move to Las Vegas
Jack: Makes sense. Yeah. Did you ever have any fears or doubts, or it just sounds like you kind of just knew this is something you wanted to do, if I’m hearing right?
Trinity: I’ve had fears and doubts along the way. Absolutely. There’s times where I question myself, and I question what I’m doing if it’s not immediately, like, successful. Like, it’s hard to know what’s going to work and what’s going to stick until you try, and sometimes it might take a while for things to, pan out the way that you want them to or pay off the way that you want them to.
I would say that, like, the biggest fear that I had for a long time was moving from Portland to Las Vegas. I was stuck in Portland for what felt like an eternity, and I was not happy with my situation there. I didn’t like the weather. And I felt like it was this huge monumental thing that I was never gonna be able to do.
So being able to achieve that and being able to pack up all of my stuff and move, like, thousand plus miles away across the country to somewhere that I’d I’d only really been a few times, was a big deal. So that was definitely something I was scared to do, but, I fully believe in just facing your fears and doing things and pushing yourself outside of your comfort zone.
Platform Journey and Why LoyalFans Is “Home”
Jack: Yeah. No. And look at you now. You’ve grown a lot. So that’s amazing. So you were camming for a while, and then is that kinda when LoyalFans and OnlyFans became kind of platforms? Or I’m just curious how that transition took place.
Trinity: So everything has been kind of again gradual for me. I I have always been the kind of person that, just signs up on every single site that I can, to claim my name and hold my space there. And sometimes I’ll sign up on a site and I forget about it for a while when I don’t necessarily use it.
But, I still do, like, a little bit of everything. I still consider myself, like, a Jill of all trades in some regards in the online world. I do camming. I do phone sex. I do customs. But, OnlyFans was something I always kind of detested and, like, resented, to be honest. Like, I signed up on it, and I started dabbling with it. And I was just like, we’ll see how it goes. And it was never, like, my main focus, and I never really had a huge following or a lot of success on there before I got banned.
Once I got banned, then that kind of made me start focusing my attention on LoyalFans more. I was like, okay. I’m banned from OnlyFans, so I’m going to shift my focus and attention to LoyalFans.
And then being here in Vegas is what also really helped me jump into the world of LoyalFans more. It started with a pole dancing class, actually. I saw, like, they were doing this fun event for creators where they were like, “Hey, if you wanna come do a pole dancing class for a night and meet other people, you can do that.”
So I just I decided to sign up and see if I could join, and they said yes. And, that was, like, the first thing that I attended with other creators. That was the first kind of event that I went to here in, Las Vegas. And it was, like, really, when I look back, quite a catalyst for where I am now because that moment really made me want to, like, focus more on this site. And then that was also where I met some really amazing people that I’m friends with now who I’ve collaborated with.
So a lot of my, doings really just comes from, like, just through it’s like throwing spaghetti at the wall and just seeing what sticks. And I’m just kind of like, “Oh, I’m curious, so I’m gonna put something out there. I’m gonna sign up for this. I’m gonna try, something.” I’m not a social media person. If you look at my followings on places, I don’t have huge, like, tens and hundreds of thousands of people. So for me, I I try to use, like, Twitter and places like this more as a tool rather than a means of, like, finding followers and subs.
Turning Points: Money Milestones and Embracing Femdom
Jack: Mhmm. Yeah. That makes sense. I mean, you you’ve been successful with kinda building relationship with other creators and everything, so that that does make sense. Kinda curious, you mentioned a few turning points and some kind of catalyst. What else what other things kinda made you think, like, wow, I’m so happy I did that, or I’m so happy I kinda put myself out there kinda what you meant in the beginning, doing x y z, whatever that was. I’m just curious kind of what were those maybe turning points that have made you into who you are today?
Trinity: So I would say, I’m trying to think. I would say my first, year of realizing that this is what I wanted to do. When I, first started this industry, I was still working as a house keeper at a hotel, and I absolutely hated it. I hated my life. I hated, working as hard as I had to, which, again, like, shout out to anyone who works in, like, the service or hospitality industry.
Jack: Right.
Trinity: It’s a rough industry to be in. So I walked out of my job, and I just quit. I just quit one day, and I just didn’t look back. And I just told myself I was like, okay. This has to work. This has to be what works for me because I don’t do well with answering to others. And I think the biggest moment was when I started to realize that this could be something long term is when I had, like, my first really, really good sub, and I was able to start, like, reinvesting into my business because I’ve you know, like, being from a poor background, I don’t have, like, anyone to fall back on. I don’t have, like, family that can support me if I need help, really. And I was homeless as a teenager.
So I’ve known a lot of instability in my life. So when I was living with my roommates and then I realized I was finally at a point that I couldn’t really do what I wanted to do with my job anymore being limited with my space, and then I was able to move out. That was a huge moment for me. When I was able to pay off my debt, and buy a car again, like, that was a huge moment for me.
Jack: Yeah!
Trinity: Which I know some of these things are, like, kinda just simple adult milestones, but when you come from a a world like I have, they’re huge things. So, that those are huge moments for me.
I think in terms of also, like, career was just, like, realizing that I had gotten to a point where I was working all the time, and I was not necessarily happy with, the way that my client base and my fans and subs and stuff were going. Because when I first started, I was more of a vanilla GFE (Girlfriend Experience) kind of girl, and I was also doing a lot of submissive stuff. And I still did domination stuff too, but I really enjoyed the domination more. And that was when I also made the plunge at one point and decided I was like, I’m going to just focus on that more.
I’m gonna focus on being bratty. I’m gonna focus on being me, which is, again, very inherently bratty and a control freak. I’m not inherently submissive, so it’s not natural for me to be like, “Oh, yes, daddy.” Like, I’ll do it. It’s fun, and I have to be in the right headspace to do it. But I much more prefer being in control.
So being able to watch the shift of my content and seeing it be successful despite, my fears and doubts along the way that I was like, “Oh, no. Is this gonna work if I start doing things differently when I know what has worked has worked?”
So there hasn’t been a whole lot of other specific moments other than the ones, like I said, like, being able to move out, pay my debts off, move to Vegas, and also adopt my cat. Like, being able to take care of my my kitty and give her a life has been a huge thing too. I’m a huge animal lover, and, he means the world to me.
Jack: That’s amazing. Yeah. Avery and I are very much cat people, so we have we have a little cat, our own.
Trinity: Oh, I love that!
Jack: Yeah! Well, that’s that’s an amazing journey. Yeah. No. It’s those are some good turning points. And, yeah, I mean, kinda what you’re mentioning about the you mentioned it as, like, basic adulting, but it’s not especially today’s world, so you should be super proud of all those things you you did there, I think.
Trinity: Thank you.
Jack: You’ve of course. Yeah. You meant I’ve read it and I’ve seen it. You kinda mentioned in the beginning that you’re in so many different platforms out there. And I was just curious. I know you got only banned on OnlyFans, but what how do you figure out where to post your content? Is the do you have kind of a a strategy of which platform hosts what, or do you kind of just more lean on to LoyalFans? Just curious how that kinda came about for you.
Trinity: So LoyalFans is definitely where I will call home now and where I focus, like, all of my, like, time and attention for the most part and, like, my main, bag. Like, I love how they run their platform. I love their features that they have. I love the way that they treat creators. And, like, I’m not, like, sponsored or endorsed by them in any way.
Like, I just having been on so many different places, I I figure out what works for me by what works for me. If something works for a while and I’m able to, like, really focus my attention on there, I will do it. And then if it doesn’t start feeling like it works for me anymore, whether it’s because of updates or because the fan base is changing, then I migrate.
I’m a very, like, type B, ADD-ish kind of person, and I don’t have an easy time sticking with one thing for a long time. So being able to play around with all of these different mediums really helps me stay in this industry. I really respect people who have been doing just clips for, like, 20 years or just phone for, like, 20 years or just one thing, whereas I feel the urge to have to play with different things.
Because some days, I really wanna play dress up, and I wanna film lots of content. And then some days, I just need to be able to take calls and text and, you know, be in my room and not be, like, so, like, face out there. So it really just a lot of it depends on how I feel. A lot of it depends on what is going on in my life both work and personal.
And a big part of where I post things too is based on autonomy. Like, I really prefer platforms where I get to have control of, like, my pricing. I like it when I’m on somewhere that feels transparent with, like, their rules and that I feel like I’m talking to a person when I have to talk to support and not just, like, bots.
So it really just depends on how I’m feeling and where I think the business is going.
Jack: No, that makes sense. And I think that’s kind of a strength of being an independent creator, right? Is that you get to choose when you want to film or whatever. So I think that that makes a lot of sense.
Trinity: Yeah. That’s why I will forever be an independent creator. I don’t work with any agencies. I’m not beholden to one site. I like being able to do my own thing and flow where I wanna go. And that’s part of what makes me Trinity Infinity is that there are infinite ways to connect and play and for me to own you.
Most Rewarding Parts of the Journey
Jack: I love that connection. That’s great! Would you say this is kind of the most rewarding part of being a creator or your journey so far, or is there just kind of other rewarding things that have happened in your experience so far?
Trinity: Oh, I would say, yeah, being able to have the freedom to work when I want and run my own schedule is definitely very rewarding. Being able to see the success that I’ve had in the years that I’ve been doing this is very rewarding. I, you know, I don’t — like I said, I grew up poor. I don’t have, like, a college degree. I’m very much, you know, this is the most success I’ve ever had and acknowledgment and recognition I’ve ever gotten for anything in my life.
It’s also very rewarding being able to watch my work grow and see how much it’s changed from where I first started to what I do now and how my content’s improved, and how I’ve put myself out there and done things that I never thought I would do.
And it’s rewarding being able to connect with other creators. I’m very grateful for the experiences I’ve had meeting other people in this industry and working with other people in this industry and building friendships that I never thought that I would have.
Hardest Parts: Bans, Censorship, and Workload
Jack: Wow. I love that. Kinda curious now, maybe the different ways, what’s been the hardest part of growing as a creator?
Trinity: Oh, social media, definitely, for starters. I’ve been banned from Instagram, Reddit, Tumblr, Facebook — like, I’m permanently banned from Facebook now — And OnlyFans, and two other platforms that need not be named.
But so I’ve been banned so many times that it’s… And I don’t really post, like, anything super hardcore for the most part. Like, when you look at my feeds, most of what I post is fairly, like, you know, PG-13 to somewhat risqué, but I don’t post, like, full nudity or anything like that. And I’m not, like, judging anybody who does that. It’s just frustrating that when you’re trying to comply with platform rules that you still get banned…
Jack: Right.
Trinity: Whether it’s because of, like, bots or people reporting you or what have you. So that’s been really frustrating and challenging, especially because everyone wants our porn and wants to jerk off to us and wants to see our stuff, but nobody wants to, like, admit it or have us on their platforms. Or they do until it’s too big and successful, and then they don’t want us on there anymore. So that’s been frustrating.
You know, dealing with the different censorship laws is incredibly frustrating and challenging. I don’t love the fact that Visa and Mastercard get to decide what we get to beat off to and what we don’t. That, like, four fingers is okay, but if you slide a fifth in there, suddenly it’s fisting, and that’s, like, you know, ban-worthy. It’s just, like, stupid arbitrary stuff like that that is hard in the adult industry.
Jack: Yeah.
Trinity: And the inconsistency, like, even though I have the freedom to work when I wanna work, the tradeoff is that I am a workaholic, and I work all the time. And I don’t always take days off and stuff as much as I should because you never know when you’re gonna find your next really good sub. So it’s a blessing and a curse. It’s, you know, every job has its perks and has its downsides, and I would say that those are some of, like, the more difficult ones. Really, it’s the censorship and then the risks of, like, debanking and, like, deplatforming that just that really, really suck.
Jack: Yeah. I’m with you. I don’t know if you read this on our bio, but Avery and I tried to become content creators before, and that was also the challenging part was getting banned or getting in trouble for things we had no clue that was gonna get us in trouble or…
Trinity: Yep.
Jack: Kind of being recognized for certain things or shared if we shared too much. Like you mentioned, like, “Oh, we have three retweets!” or something. Boom. Something happens. That post is removed. And, like, like, why? What happened? So completely understand that. That’s crazy frustrating.
Trinity: Yes. Yeah. And I still don’t know to this day what I actually officially got banned from OnlyFans for. I know that I was, like, not breaking a ton of rules, but I bent a few here and there that were ones that, like, lots of other creators seem to get away with, like selling panties. I had a WishTender link in my bio for a little bit.
I had a set of selfies that, like, was up for months that I took in, like, my bathroom before I went wine tasting one day, and there was nothing wrong with them. There wasn’t like, they were just normal mirror selfies of, like, tits and ass. And then that one day got randomly flagged before I got banned from there, and they never gave me an explanation to what specific rule that I broke other than that I violated their TOS. They banned me. They refunded my subs, and they said to never join their platform again. So I said, “Okay.”
Jack: Wow.
Trinity: That’s fine with me because I don’t wanna be places where they don’t want me. So, yeah. Those are definitely the biggest struggles of this industry.
Jack: Yeah. I hear you. Wow. That’s insane for them not to even tell you what you did. You just arbitrarily — something in the TOS.
Trinity: Yep. Yep!
Jack: That’s frustrating. Well, we can — I mean, look at you now. You have all these highlights and recognitions and things that you’ve done. So let’s let’s talk about those things because those are more exciting and you’re doing great.
Trinity: Absolutely.
Awards, Nominations, and Exxxotica Booth Win
Jack: So yeah. So, like I mentioned in the beginning here, you were nominated as LoyalFans as Featured Creator and also on the Own the Booth, Own the Spotlight Contest. So I would love for you to take us through those emotions. So how did that moment feel for you? All the nominations, actually. I’m just curious how that felt.
Trinity: Well, every time I find out that I’ve, like, received a nomination, my reaction is a mixture of, like, squealing and crying of, like, happy tears. And, when I found out that I was nominated for AVN, that was, like, one of the biggest moments I would say absolutely. Like, I felt, like, the most proud and the most, like like, holy shit. I get to, like, walk a red carpet along, like, sides so many performers and people that I respect and people in the industry that I’ve, like, admired for years.
The part of what led up to me winning the Exxxotica contest and being the Creator of the Month for, April for LoyalFans was that I worked the booth at AVN for LoyalFans for two days. I was, like, a top ten contestant for their AVN contest, and they offered me a couple booth days. So I got to, like, dip my toes in the water with that.
So when I saw that they were doing a contest for being the Creator of the Month and, going to Exxxotica, I threw my hat in the ring, and I was just like, I’ve never been to Exxxotica. I’ve never been to Chicago. I love LoyalFans. It would be an honor and a dream come true to be able to have this experience and…
Jack: Yeah.
Trinity: Represent, LoyalFans. So I waited and waited, and then I got the email. And I just I was speechless. I was just like, holy fuck. I won. I can’t believe it. I can’t believe that I get to do this, that I get this level of recognition, that I was blasted all over their site for the whole month of April. And it really did feel like a kind of surreal experience being able to be, like, flown out there and have them, you know, treat me like I mattered and treat me like my opinion mattered.
And, then being able to have my own booth and getting to interact with, like, so many fans and creators in person. I had so much fun. I got to take some amazing content.
I’m really grateful I didn’t get sick because I got very sick after AVN. A lot of people did. Managed to beat that at Exxxotica though, and it was just a lot of fun.
It was a really great experience. It went by really fast. I also got to be a judge for the miss Exxxotica contest, as part of my win. So that was really important and cool getting to, like, have an impact on, like, someone’s, like, life too. And, like, that’s, like, a a really big win. Like, the person who won that got, like, a thousand bucks and, like, some, like, recognition and stuff.
Trinity: So, yeah. I am really grateful for that experience, and I’m very happy that I got to, represent LoyalFans in that way and that they trusted me. And, and it was really surreal too having, like, multiple fans come up to me and say that they actually, like, recognized me. And I had some creators who were like, “Oh, I just signed up on Loyal Fans, and I actually you were, like, the first person I saw on the site.”
And I was just like, “Oh, wow. Uh, okay. That’s crazy!” And so because, like, again, I’m not, like, a big name creator by any means, and I don’t expect people to, like, know me the way that you would know, like, who Cherie Deville is or, like, some of these big name porn stars and stuff. So, like, having anyone recognize me, I was just like, “Wow, what the fuck?” I was not expecting that at all.
Even just talking about it right now, I’m getting emotional thinking about how, great of an experience it was. And out of all of the platforms I’ve worked on, I’ve never had one that treated me like that and, like, treated me like my opinion really mattered that much and, and acted like, you know, I was a valued part of their team even though, again, I’m despite not being, like, one of the biggest people on there. But, yeah. So it was very emotional in a lot of ways. It was a roller coaster of just, like, feeling very grateful and happy and also just, like, super overwhelming and, and surreal.
Jack: Yeah. I can imagine. That’s that’s amazing. And then you’re able to judge a content. Like, that’s that’s awesome. I’m happy for you.
Trinity: Thank you. I appreciate it.
What Makes LoyalFans Feel Like a Community
Jack: Of course. Yeah. And you kinda hinted at it. I’m curious, you know, you mentioned LoyalFans as kind of this real community, and I just wondered, like, what are they doing different? How does that make you feel, you know, like a community, and and how important is that sense of connection for you? Sounds pretty important, but I’ll let you I’ll let you speak.
Trinity: Yeah. It’s definitely important because, like, as someone who has been on all these different platforms and tried all these different places, I’ve gotten to experience talking to lots of different people. And some of them have better customer service skills than others. Some of them are more responsive and treat you more like a person, and actually listen to your feedback.
Again, like, hosting events for, like, creators and stuff like that. Like, I’ve met some of my, like, closest friends now because of, that pole dancing class and have, you know, some amazing connections made because of that. There’s been platforms that I’ve been on who actually, like, strictly prohibit, like, meeting with people in real life and things like that. And I understand why you have to do that, but then it just makes it harder to, like, have a sense of community or, feel like you have, like, a support system. So that makes a huge difference.
I love, again, like, the features that they have on the platform that it’s, like, easy for me to, sell clips. I do voice notes. I can go live and, like, live stream and cam on there. I can do privates. I can, you know, do, like, pretty much everything on there.
And I like, again, that they’re pretty transparent about things with, like, changes and rules and stuff like that. And, like, it’s just, I could go on and on about the things that I love for them, but, like, that, they were my, safety net when I got banned from OnlyFans. And since then, it’s, it’s been great. And they also have really good internal traffic too.
I started the year with, like, less than 300 fans. That was something I was nervous about when I went to ABN and I worked the booth. I was like, “Who the fuck is gonna know who I am? Why am I even doing this?” And since then and since I’ve really started working really hard and putting my time and effort and attention to there, I went from less than 300 to I am now creeping up on almost 10,000 followers on there.
Jack: Wow!
Trinity: So, they do have some really good internal traffic, and I I like that a lot because, again, I don’t do well with social media. But I do well with places where I know my content is wanted.
Jack: Yeah. I mean, that from 300 to 10,000, that’s that’s amazing. So that’s a good indication of good platform.
Trinity: Yeah. So I’m very grateful for that, and I’m very grateful for, again, every opportunity that they’ve given me so far. Again, like, they, they also were the reason I went to AVN the first year that I went, which was in, 2024 last year. I wasn’t there at at a booth. They just gave me passes to go. So I I’ve never again worked on a platform that was so generous with, like, wanting to help you succeed.
Jack: Yeah. Well, there’s some good, takeaways for for Avery and I for for TrustyFans. I like it.
Trinity: Glad that I can get some helpful insight.
Collaborations, Learning, and Vegas as a Hub
Jack: Yeah. No. That was that was great. Curious, you mentioned that pole dancing class and friendships and collaborations. I’m just curious kind of how have those helped you become/grow as a creator?
Trinity: I love being able to see how different creators do things differently. You never know what you don’t know until you don’t know it. And then just there’s so many things when it comes to, like, the technical side of this industry, whether it’s, like, cams, cameras and filming and lighting and all kinds of things and editing that just, being able to talk with other creators and learn from their experiences is definitely valuable and helpful.
You know, being able to, like, get ideas, and see again just different styles of, like, how people do things, has been really helpful. And it’s fun. Like, when you’re in this world and you end up spending a lot of time working from home, it’s great. But then it also turns into the thing where it makes it really easy to isolate. And then before you know it, you haven’t left your house in, like, a week. So, having, like, friends and, like, reasons to network and connect with people and, like, leave your your home is is always a plus.
And, yeah. I’ve just, like, I’ve had some really, really fun collabs with people, over the last year. I actually I, I’m trying to think. I I think I’ve collaborated with four different creators this year, and I have a another collab, coming up next week with another person who I’ve never worked with before, and I’m really excited for that.
So, yeah, being here in Vegas is definitely something that has also allowed for all these opportunities to happen.
Jack: That makes sense. Vegas is a a big hub is what I’m hearing.
Trinity: Yes. Definitely.
Jack: Makes sense. Curious if you wanted to give any of those collaborators a shout out if you want to?
Trinity: Yes! Absolutely. I wasn’t trying to sound name droppy, but, I’ve collaborated with Scarlett Cummings, Maya Sinstress, Brat Barbie, Lord Lola, and I’ve got an upcoming one with Sarah D’Avila.
So I am super excited to be working with her, and I’m super excited to have worked with all of those ladies and, gotten to see how they do their work, and how we mesh together. It’s been a lot of fun.
Advice for New Creators
Jack: I love that. Kinda going on talking about creators and just thinking about when you first started and everything, but just kinda going back of what would advice would you give to kind of a new creator just starting out, maybe trying to find their niche, their community, anything like that for a new creator?
Trinity: So I would say, you know, know your boundaries. You know, like, there are going to be people who are going to push you and test you and try and make you do things that you might not wanna do, and you don’t have to do anything you don’t wanna do. Like, if you wanna be, like, super hardcore and nude and lewd and put all of yourself out there, you can do that and you can be successful. And if you want to be faceless and never show any nudity, you can also be successful. They’re both gonna have different struggles, and they’re both gonna be, like, different worlds, and then there’s everything else in between.
But, like, know that it is forever, that the Internet is forever, and that you have to be prepared for that. Like, I have accepted, that I am very much out there now so that even if I decided tomorrow for some reason that I can’t imagine why I would. But if I did, then I didn’t wanna do this anymore and that I just wanted to be done and delete all of my social media and sites and just, like, try to take off to the wilderness and hide. That that’s not possible and that, like, I’m still gonna be out there for forever, that your digital footprint is forever. So, be okay with that and accept that.
And, I’ve said this, like, a million times, but it is a marathon. It’s not a sprint. Like, you have to be okay with the fact that, like, it takes time to build up a fan base, build up, like, regulars, reinvest in your business. Like, I started with very little.
I did not have, like, all of the high-tech stuff that I have or the wardrobe that I have or anything like that when I first started doing this. And every step of the way, I saved and saved and saved and saved and then slowly started reinvesting more into my business. And each step of the way, it was like, okay. Just little by little.
So, be okay with the fact that, like, some people have the, you know, luck of blowing up overnight and becoming super big and then just right like, raking in millions, but that’s very few and far between. Most people who, want to do this, it it takes a while to become successful, and you have to be okay with that. And you have to be okay with working a lot and knowing that sacrifices have to be made.
Are you willing to maybe not hang out with your friends as much and, stay in? Because even though you’re self employed now and people just assume that you can do whatever you want when you want, if you don’t stay inside for maybe twelve hours a day at first, you might not find that good regular who will make a difference in your day. So you have to kind of, like, weigh out these pros and cons and, like, juggle your time and figure out, like, how much are you willing to put into this.
Jack: Mhmm. Those are all great pieces of advice, I think, for for brand new people. I know a lot of people do think that they’re gonna become this viral sensation and boom, they’re gonna have millions of dollars and dollars.
Trinity: Yeah. Probably not.
Jack: From what I’m seeing and hearing, that’s that’s very, very, very, very rare. And so —
Trinity: Yes.
Burnout: Prevention, Recovery, and Support Systems
Jack: What you did there was made a lot of sense. For, I guess, current creators, I know that the industry does experience a lot of burnout. I’m wondering if you ever ever experienced that. And if you did, how did you push through that to keep on going?
Trinity: Oh, I experienced burnout, like, multiple times over, the years in varying degrees. This last summer, I actually went through a kind of hard slump over, June and July. And, again, part of this goes back to what I was just saying about saving and why saving is so important because, if you don’t have a safety net to fall back on, the times that you’re going to need to take time off, it is going to hurt a lot more and be a lot harder to recover from if you’re not prepared for it. So, try to have a savings and, have a support system.
And, like, you can do all of, like, the basic self care things that we all hear about, like, you know, when it comes to, like, working out or eating healthy or, like, trying to even get fresh air and sunlight. But, like, if you’re experiencing, like, long term burnout and you’re feeling, like, super drained, like, the biggest thing is to just be gentle with yourself and, like, really accept the fact that, like, you can only do so much. So, like, if you can only, like, show up for, like, one thing a day and that’s it, and then you have to just, like, rot in bed for a little bit, like, that’s that’s how it’s gonna be.
So, just be prepared for, like, the fact that you don’t know when it’s gonna hit. And, like, if you schedule breaks and you try to plan your time accordingly, you are going to, have a lot less of a chance of experiencing burnout. But the times that I experience burnout the hardest is when I’ve, like, pushed myself really, really hard and worked a ton. And then before I know it, I’m just like, “Okay. I can’t do anything anymore.”
So on the one hand, I’m a workaholic, and I rarely take time off. But, like, in order to make sure that I don’t get burnt out, I have to plan things where I’m like, okay. I’m not gonna, like, check my phone for, like, most of the day. I’m not going to log on and check things. I’m going to go out and do fun things that are just for me and then come back and feel like I can, like, you know, engage with people again.
Jack: Yeah. That that makes sense to me. I think you — what I’m hearing is planning, knowing first knowing yourself. Right?
Trinity: Yes.
Jack: Knowing who you are, knowing when you’re hitting that kind of burnout stage or —
Trinity: Mhmm.
Jack: Kind of feeling, and then planning, it sounds like, is a strength too. Right? Planning planning even your rest time.
Trinity: Yes. And I’m an over planner to, like, every degree, which is kinda funny because I’m a type B person and I don’t have a set schedule. I’m not one of those people that’s very meticulous with, like, being like, oh, I’m gonna plan out my day from, like, every hour on the hour. I’m very much kind of, like, how I feel and how I go with things.
And, like, I kinda look at my general calendar for the month, and I’m like, okay. These days, I know I have certain things to do, and then the rest, I kinda just fill in. But, but just being aware and being in tune with the fact that, like, these things can happen, emergencies can happen, and you need to be able to, like, have a plan to walk away, and feel like you can because there are times where it feels scary that if you’re not, like, constantly camming or taking calls that you’re worried that, like, your regulars might disappear. But, like, if they’re if they’re your good regulars, they will understand and they will come back. And if they’re not, then it’s time for them to move on anyways.
I mean, last week, I was just dealing with a crisis with my cat getting super sick, and it was driving me insane. And I felt so grateful that all of my subs and all of my friends and all of my mutuals, like, showed up to, like, support me and send, like, their their good vibes and their well wishes and check-in with me and ask how I was doing. And, and so, like, just knowing though that when those things happen that, like, you have to be able to, like, be real with yourself and be real with people and be like, I-I can’t right now.
I can’t push myself. And sometimes if all you can do is maintain, then all you can do is maintain and, not take on, like, new projects or try to film new stuff and things like that. So, when I’m feeling really great and I know I can push and I can work hard, I will go hard. And then some days, I will film, like, ten, twenty clips in one day if I can, and, like, film a bunch of stuff.
I think ten to fifteen actually was maybe the most. I would love to try to get to the point where I could film twenty, but ten to fifteen is probably my max. And, like, some days, it’s it’s not as easy.
So I, you know, just juggling those things and knowing, what you can do when you can do it. And, again, having a support system, because if you’re burnt out by yourself, it’s a lot harder to come out of than if you have people who are around you who know what you’re going through.
Jack: Yeah. Sounded like you not only had creators who were supportive, but also just your fans and mutuals and and stuff and everything. So that’s that’s amazing.
Trinity: Yes. Definitely. I was so grateful for that because it was very stressful.
Jack: Yeah. How how is your kitty doing, by the way?
Trinity: Oh, she is actually doing a lot better. She’s alert, and she’s eating, and she’s home, and she’s starting to act more like her normal self. I really don’t know what happens still. I know sometimes cats just have issues, and they don’t really know what it is, and it resolves itself. But for now, she’s seeming to be okay, and there wasn’t anything super urgent or seeming like she needed surgery or anything like that. So I’m very grateful for that.
Why Trinity Infinity Joined TrustyFans
Jack: Okay. I’m grateful for that as well. It’s good. Just switching gears a little bit here. Let’s, talk about TrustyFans if that’s okay.
Trinity: Of course.
Jack: Awesome. Just curious, what made you join TrustyFans?
Trinity: So like I said, I’ve been banned from, like, every social media platform that basically exists except for Twitter, surprisingly. And now I know a lot of people love to hate on X and stuff, but I’m grateful that I can at least post pictures of me with my strap on and, like, links and stuff like that and not just immediately get flagged.
But so when I saw TrustyFans, at first, I was, like, at first glance thinking, “Okay. Is this another fan site platform? I really cannot handle taking on another fan site platform right now.”
And then I realized that it wasn’t, and I was like, “Oh, okay. It’s like a search engine to, like, promote where I am and what I do. Absolutely.” Like, there is not enough places on the Internet for creators to advertise and to put ourselves.
Again, we constantly have to deal with getting banned or getting censored or shadow banned or having to dance around things. And, I was just like, yeah. If there’s a place that I can host my, you know, loyal fans and my Instagram and show off what I do and have another place where people can find me, absolutely. Like, that’s that’s amazing. I would love that, please.
Especially people who are actually looking for those things because that’s one of the struggles of social media and why I get, to some degree, why people who are on, like, Instagram or, like like, dating apps get frustrated with, like, creators being on there. Because if you’re not trying to see that and you’re not trying to find that, that that can be, like, frustrating. But if you are someone who wants those things and you are seeking those things out, it should be easy to find, so it shouldn’t be so difficult to find creators that you want to have fun with or buy content from or what have you.
Jack: Yeah. I hear you. That’s what we figured out too. It’s just kind of, okay, how do we — you know, the story of Avery and I — like, how do we actually get found? You know, how do we, you know, post ourselves on, like, social media, then we get, like, two likes and who saw that? Maybe ten people. Like, okay. That’s great. You know? But having a place that — you hit it — being able to be searched, and so I’m so happy that you that that that message came through for you as well.
Trinity: Yes. Absolutely. It’s, yeah, it’s it’s hard. It’s hard having to deal with, like, against censorship and shadow bans and stuff like that. And, again, I’m not, like, a very natural social media person to begin with. Like, I didn’t have, like, a ton of personal social media. And when I started doing this, I I deleted all of it. Like, I any of the, like, little bits of of personal social media I had were just nuked.
So it is not something that’s organic for me and natural for me to be like, oh, let’s do these trends and stuff like that. Like, my friend that came into town last month for her birthday had me do a TikTok with her, and do, like, one of the TikTok trends for, like it was my first time doing one of those. I mean, she had done those, and I was just like, okay. This is I feel so silly and feel so cringe, but, it’s just it’s not something that is natural to me.
I’m much more better at being like, I’m I’m a bratty dom. Like, let’s have fun. Like, I wanna make your fetishes and fantasies come to life. So having a place where I can just say those things and be transparent about that is fantastic.
Jack: Yeah. I love that. Yeah. That’s that’s great. I know TikTok dances I tried, and I was like, I can’t…
Trinity: Doesn’t it feel really silly? It’s definitely like, I can put my whole naked body out there, no problem, and do some really crazy weird shit. And then if you ask me to take a selfie in public, I’m like, ugh, cringe. Oh, I’m taking pictures of my food. This is so embarrassing.
Jack: That is funny. If, maybe if another creator asked why they should join TrustyFans, what would you tell that creator?
Trinity: Again, like, if you wanna have a place to put your, like, links and be found that’s not going to ban you for existing and for being an adult creator. There’s there’s never a good like, I can’t imagine a good reason why you wouldn’t wanna have more publicity and more, engagement and more attention on you. Like, that’s the goal is to try to, like, put yourself out there and have people see you and get eyes on you and, you know, like, build relationships with fans and subs. So if you want to have a place that’s not going to ban you arbitrarily like Instagram or other places, then, yeah, it’s a great place to sign up on.
Jack: Perfect. Well, thank you so much for saying all those those nice kind of things.
Trinity: Of course. And, again, I really appreciate that when my Instagram got banned back in July, you guys were there to follow me back and help engage and repost things, and just those simple things are very helpful.
Jack: Yeah. Of course. When we see that, we’re like, we’ve experienced it. Right? So yeah. That sucks.
Trinity: Yeah.
Jack: And so we’re like, alright. Just trying to help. So I’m glad that that helped you.
Trinity: Yes. Absolutely.
Looking Ahead: Merch, Events, Goals, and Giving Back
Jack: Awesome. Well, let’s, kinda — we’re getting close in time. I just wanna talk about you looking ahead into the future. You know? What are you most excited about right now? Some new projects. I heard something about merch. Maybe some personal goals.
Trinity: Yeah. So I have a merch store that I launched recently through Streamlabs, and that’s been just kind of, like, a fun little side project. I launched my pocket pussy last year, so I have another way that fans can connect with me and be more intimate.
I’m looking forward to this collab that I’m working on, upcoming this next week. I have a few events that I might be attending. I’m definitely going to be at AVN. I’m not sure to what degree or fashion I will be there, but I will be at AVN again in 2026.
I’m going to be attending the Nevada Cannabis Awards Music Festival this month, and possibly another event in December. We shall see, if things pan out that way.
Personal goals, I’m always trying to just work on myself and be the best version of myself as I can be. I know it sounds super cliché and, like, self-helpy, but, like, we can always improve and better ourselves whether it’s with, like, diet and exercise or, like, personal, like, strengths and, like, relationships.
One of my biggest personal goals is I’m trying to save up to buy a house. I really want that stability and that consistency because, again, being homeless means I never got to experience that. And being poor, I never got to experience what it was like to have that. So that’s something that is very important to me.
Long term goals, I would love at some point to be able to either open up, like, a cat café or an animal rescue to, like, give back and help animals. And, yeah. Those are those are the main things that I’ve been focusing on right now and also just more content, more weird ideas. I have more concepts and costumes than hours in the day that I can keep up with.
Jack: So do you keep track of those ideas somewhere?
Trinity: Oh, yeah. I have digital lists and physical lists. I have a whole content binder dedicated to scene planning and brainstorming and things of that nature. And then I have lists on my phone too.
Jack: Wow! So you got lists of all this just like I do.
Trinity: Yes. I have worked on list and list. I need all the lists. Otherwise, I will forget things.
Jack: Same. Same.
Where to Follow Trinity Infinity
Jack: Well, thank you so much for for joining this Creator Spotlight. Just wanted to ask you since we have people listening and people are gonna listen later, where can people find you if they wanna follow and support you?
Trinity: So you can follow me on Twitter, Instagram, Reddit, @trinfinity69. My website is trinityinfinity.com, and loyalfans.com/trinityinfinity is where all of the good stuff is gonna be, where I spend all of my time and attention for the most part. I also, I do daily polls on my LoyalFans for followers. So if you want some fun engagement and you want your opinion to be known, I have all kinds of fun polls that vary from spicy to funny and random. So, yeah, that’s that’s where you’re gonna find me.
Jack: I love it. Any maybe last thoughts, last words of encouragement for creators who may be listening to this, just starting out with their journey?
Final Takeaways from Trinity Infinity
Trinity: There is a niche for everyone. There’s a market for everyone. What you get out of this industry is what you put into it. If you want, like, really good success, you have to be willing to work hard. And I think it is harder to be successful nowadays than it is, like, compared to, like, even a few years ago when I first started.
But I don’t think that that should be discouraging. I think that you just have to have realistic expectations and, you know, find your audience. And you never know what might be a kink or a fetish or a niche that will be the thing that makes you stand out. I never thought I would be as into giantess creation and some of the weird stuff that I do that I absolutely love. So just be open minded and, you know, again, it’s it’s a marathon, not a sprint. And if I can find all of this success after having been through what I’ve been through, I do think it’s possible for others to find it too.
Jack: I love it. Thank you so much, Trinity, for being part of the Spotlight.
Trinity: Well, thank you for having me. And, it’s been a pleasure chatting with you. And I hope other creators and people get something out of it.
Jack: Thank you so much. And for everyone listening, don’t forget to check out Trinity Infinity across all of her platforms she just mentioned. This has been another episode of the Creator Spotlight series brought to you by TrustyFans, the creator search engine built to help fans find you faster and creators shine. I’m Jack Anderson, Founder and CEO of TrustyFans. Thank you, everybody, for tuning in. We’ll see you next time.
Trinity: See you next time. Bye.
Jack: Bye.
